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NOTES ON MEDIATION

Books where you may find useful information are listed in addition to ones in the videos, and covering a spectrum of views. Inclusion of any Books and Web links is not meant to imply acceptance of any or all of their content, but to allow for further discussion.

If you can't watch videos, most of the relevant information can be found via the Links

FINDING MIDDLE GROUND
The following is a direct link to reviews at Amazon on 'Second Thoughts' by Dr Paul Simpson, a therapist who came to believe that the type of help he offered clients led to confusion and false allegations. He founded Project Middle Ground in America to open up dialogue between his clients and family members whom they accused of abuse. In view of the success often encountered, it is mentioned in the hopes that something similar may be attempted in the UK. People similarly affected can check the comments made and see how they apply to their own lives, either as accusers or as accused individuals: http://www.amazon.com/Second-Thoughts-Paul-Simpson/product-reviews/0785274189. Further information is at http://www.equip.org/articles/second-thoughts-about-recovered-memories

Various academics at UK universities have written papers about bridging what might seem an impossible divide. Sadly people tend to fight a particular corner, but Dr Simpson showed that it is possible to try for a middle ground, with some considerable effect. Several books shedding light on how some misunderstandings could have arisen have been written in America since 1995. It seems a pity to let all of that, plus what has been achieved in the UK, remain unattended for the most part. Perhaps Dr Simpson's approach of working with families involved in the controversy is not directly applicable in the UK, but that does not mean there may not be an alternative approach that suits our culture.

CHILD PROTECTION, CHILDREN'S RIGHTS, FAMILIES, GETTING the RIGHT HELP

There will always be controversies over who is right or wrong, and what is most important.
A large factor is that not every person or situation is the same. Different people have different experiences, perceptions needs. Below are links to some sites about individuals and groups of people, particularly involved in families and justice. They are written by people who are sincere, about people who are also sincere. Follow up on what turns up. YOU decide!

www.dramatis.hostcell.net
http://wheresmydadorguk.giving.officelive.com/UKGovernment.aspx
www.mothers-for-justice.net
http://johnhemming.blogspot.com
www.fassit.co.uk/john_hemming_campaign.htm
www.justice-for-families.org.uk/familylawreform/takingthestickaway.html
http://childprotectionresource.blogspot.com/2008/06/john-hemming-blasted-by-family-court.html
www.communitycare.co.uk/blogs/childrens-services/2007/08/the-john-hemming-effect.html
www.solarnavigator.net/animal_kingdom/humans/munchausens_syndrome.htm
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/medical_notes/3528517.stm
www.bullyonline.org/workbully/munchaus.htm
www.yourrights.org.uk/yourrights/the-rights-of-children-and-young-people/index.html

http://sites.google.com/site/falsememorysyndrome/theophostic
Downloadable pdf file 'Lying Spirits' by Jan Fletcher

 

Justice for Carol website
www.justiceforcarol.com
Also see the Links page there

'Users and Abusers of Psychiatry: A Critical Look at Psychiatric Practice' by Lucy Johnstone:
Using real-life examples and her own experience as a clinical psychologist, Lucy Johnstone argues that the traditional way of treating mental illness can often exacerbate people's original difficulties leaving them powerless, disabled and distressed.

In this completely revised and updated second edition, she draws on a range of evidence to present a very different understanding of psychiatric breakdown than that found in standard medical textbooks.
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Users-Abusers-Psychiatry-Critical-Psychiatric/dp/0415211565/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1310297720&sr=1-1

 

Bad Therapy

TELL - Therapy Exploitation Link Line
Useful advice and resources at www.therapyabuse.org

Short essays on issues of interest to victims/survivors of emotional and sexual abuse by psychotherapists and other health care professionals.at www.therapyabuse.org/topics.htm


VEX
organisation
for support, info and links at http://website.lineone.net/~vex/


 

http://recoveredmemorytherapy.blogspot.com


Miscarriage of Memory Historic Abuse Cases by William Burgoyne, Norman Brand, http://www.amazon.co.uk/Miscarriage-Memory-Historic-Abuse-Cases/dp/0955518415/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1300711401&sr=1-1

Article on the above book, by Professor Chris French of Goldsmiths College, London http://www.guardian.co.uk/science/2010/nov/24/false-memories-abuse-convict-innocent

http://youtu.be/BNPFSpONSMs

www.youtube.com/watch?v=pz8aIwgxCPc

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6ApVSonDlBQ

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t6pdDNo2hf4

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GETTING HELP for Your Circumstances

There will be controversies too over what are likely to be effective methods of helping people, and what is potentially damaging for some of us. Read up on what you can, make up your own mind, and be prepared to change it - if that seems best for you. YOU are the only person who can decide.

Dorothy Rowe has written a variety of books on subjects to do with human emotions and relationships and getting help. Many are available in book stores, and new or secondhand from www.amazon.co.uk

New Attacks on Psychotherapy article by Phil Mollon at www.philmollon.co.uk/NEWattacksonpsychotherapy.html

Guidelines for Seeking Help and Self-Help are at www.tansal.org.uk/guidelinesforhelp.html

Playlists on 'theCojent' Youtube channel, and also on 'Survivorway' - for Survivors of all kinds

Stop Bad Therapy site www.stopbadtherapy.com

Talking Cure - useful information & links relevant for the UK at www.talkingcure.co.uk (site of Dr Douglas McFadzean & associates)

VEX organisation for support, info and links at http://website.lineone.net/~vex/

'Users and Abusers of Psychiatry: A Critical Look at Psychiatric Practice' by Lucy Johnstone:
Using real-life examples and her own experience as a clinical psychologist, Lucy Johnstone argues that the traditional way of treating mental illness can often exacerbate people's original difficulties leaving them powerless, disabled and distressed. In this completely revised and updated second edition, she draws on a range of evidence to present a very different understanding of psychiatric breakdown than that found in standard medical textbooks.
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Users-Abusers-Psychiatry-Critical-Psychiatric/dp/0415211565/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1310297720&sr=1-1

 

ADVICE to PARENTS and CHILDREN p.119 Counselling or Quackery?)

William Burgoyne quotes pages 631-637 of Mark Pendergrast's book Victims of Memory (available from Amazon) on some considerations when trying to build trust within families affected by allegations of abuse.

Summaries of chapters from Victims of Memory are online http://markpendergrast.com/victims-of-memory-table-of-contents

Click here for A Summary of Myths and Realities on Memory and Therapy

And www.fmsfonline.org/fmsf96.330.html#mediation
FAMILY RECONCILIATION THROUGH MEDIATION Susan P. Robbins, D.S.W. University of Houston,
appearing in FMS Foundation Newsletter Vol 5 No. 4, April 1, 1996

Meredith Maran has written a book entitled My Lie due for publication on 22 September 2010, available online at Amazon UK and WHSmith, see www.meredithmaran.com/MyLie.htm Psychology Today excerpt, September/October 2010: My Lie
See Guardian article of Saturday 9 October 2010 www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandstyle/2010/oct/09/meredith-maran-father-abuse-false-memory

     

 

If you can't watch videos, most of the relevant information can be found via the Links

The two videos below outline some properties of cults, or even ordinary groups

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vSJPwiZ0qho

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C_wAM0erdsM

 

GROUPS and PROCESSES Links

Domestic Violence, bullying, coercive relationships
Groups, Cults, Beliefs, Scams including books, articles, links on relevant behaviour
Ostracism can cause a real Pain!
Social Engineering - strategies from the computer environment, and used generally, to gain information or to manipulate - often via 'social compliance'
Stalking, Harassment & Bullying including in the workplace
Survivor Links and Supporting a Survivor of Abuse

 

HUMAN RIGHTS

USEFUL RESOURCES

ABOUT HUMAN RIGHTS www.abouthumanrights.co.uk

BBC Website: http://news.bbc.co.uk/hi/
english/ static/ in_depth/uk/2001/life_of_crime/
miscarriages.stm

BIHR (British Institute of Human Rights) www.bihr.org.uk

CCRC Links www.ccrc.gov.uk/links.htm

JUSTICE Organisation Links: www.justice.org.uk/links/index.html

LEGAL ACTION GROUP www.lag.org.uk

LEGAL BLOGS, News Feeds, Podcasts, Video Blogs & Wikis list www.venables.co.uk/blogs.htm

LEGAL NEWS www.scottishlaw.org.uk/scotlaw/newslaw.html

LIBERTY (Civil Liberties/Human Rights) www.liberty-human-rights.org.uk

TOUGH JUSTICE Library www.raybrook.co.uk/library.htm plus TIPS for re-investigating a case

 

UAI United Against Injustice National Federation of Miscarriage of Justice Campaign and Support Organisations. Miscarriage of Justice Day held annually www.unitedagainstinjustice.org.uk

 

WATCH ONLINE

HUMAN RIGHTS TV Video Channels
www.humanrightstv.com/channel-az

INJUSTICE Films - www.injusticefilm.co.uk

INNOCENCE Network UK, Dr Michael Naughton www.humanrightstv.com/innocence-inuk

TOUGH JUSTICE www.raybrook.co.uk

WITNESS (formerly POPAN)
www.youtube.com/user/WITNESS2007

YOUTUBE - You can search on the Website

 

CITIZENS' ADVICE BUREAUX

CAB main Site: www.nacab.org.uk

Download information on many issues + local CAB Branches: www.adviceguide.org.uk

Civil Rights in England:
www.adviceguide.org.uk/ index/your_rights/civil_rights.htm

 

Further resources at TANSAL Abuse & Rights http://tansal.50megs.com/humanrights.html

 

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